Consoling Thoughts on Suffering

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Lamentation over the Dead Body of Christ - by BOTTICELLI, Sandro - from Alte Pinakothek, Munich

 

Let not my abandonment, and my sorrow, and my bereavement go to waste. Gather up the fragments, and as the drop of water is absorbed by the wine at the Offertory of the Mass, let my life be absorbed in Thee; let my little cross be entwined with Thy Great Cross, so that I may purchase the joys of everlasting happiness in union with Thee.

Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen

 

Consoling Thoughts on Suffering


by Saint Alphonsus Liguori

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littlegoldcross.gif (962 bytes)And when God sends us crosses, let us not only be resigned, but let us also thank Him, since it is a sign that He means to pardon our sins and save us from hell.

littlegoldcross.gif (962 bytes)When God does not punish a sinner in this life, it is a sign that He waits to punish him in eternity, where the punishment will have no end.

littlegoldcross.gif (962 bytes)If we do not have the strength to desire and seek for sufferings, let us at least try to accept with patience those crosses which God sends us for our good.

littlegoldcross.gif (962 bytes)Give me a soul that suffers with resignation; there is God.

littlegoldcross.gif (962 bytes)The Lord takes delight in being near those who are afflicted; it must, however, be those who suffer in peace and are resigned to the divine will.

littlegoldcross.gif (962 bytes)He who has offended God must be punished; and, therefore, we ought always to beg of Him to chastise us in this world, and not in the next. That sinner is to be pitied who does not receive his chastisement in this life.

littlegoldcross.gif (962 bytes)When a soul first gives itself up to the spiritual life, the Lord is accustomed to heap consolations upon it and thus withdraw it from the pleasures of the world. But afterward, when He sees it more settled in spiritual ways, He draws back His hand to test its love, and to see whether it serves and loves Him without reward in this world.

littlegoldcross.gif (962 bytes)I call the time of sickness the touchstone by which souls are tried, because in it is discovered the value of the virtue which anyone possesses. If he does not lose his tranquillity, if he makes no complaints, is not overanxious and obeys his doctors, preserving throughout his peacefulness of mind in perfect resignation to the divine will, it is a sign that he possesses great virtue.

littlegoldcross.gif (962 bytes)Are not the punishments which God sends us in this life acts of kindness? If we have offended Him, we have to satisfy His justice in some way or other, either in this life or in the next. It should be a consolation to one who has deserved hell to see that God is punishing him in this world. This should give him hope that it may be God's will to deliver him from eternal punishment.

littlegoldcross.gif (962 bytes)This world is the place for meriting by suffering; heaven is the place for rewards and enjoyments.

littlegoldcross.gif (962 bytes) What is this world but a prison for us to suffer in, and to be in danger every moment of losing God?

littlegoldcross.gif (962 bytes)When God sends darkness and desolation, He is testing His true friends.

littlegoldcross.gif (962 bytes)Let the soul thank the Lord when He caresses it with sweetness, but not torment itself with impatience when it is left in a state of desolation.

littlegoldcross.gif (962 bytes) Unite your own sufferings with those of Jesus Christ.

littlegoldcross.gif (962 bytes)Certainly our virtue is greater, if in times of sickness, we do not complain of our sufferings.

littlegoldcross.gif (962 bytes)What greater consolation can come to a soul than to know that by patiently bearing some tribulation, it gives God the greatest pleasure in its power?

littlegoldcross.gif (962 bytes)When anything disagreeable happens, remember it comes from God and say at once, “This comes from God” and be at peace.

littlegoldcross.gif (962 bytes)Sickness is the acid test of spirituality, because it discloses whether our virtue is real or sham. If the soul is not agitated, does not break out in lamentations, is not feverishly restless in seeking a cure, but instead is submissive to the doctors and to superiors, is serene and tranquil, completely resigned to God’s will, it is a sign that that soul is well-grounded in virtue.

littlegoldcross.gif (962 bytes)Our offenses against God must be atoned for somehow, either in this life or in the next.

littlegoldcross.gif (962 bytes)Having merited hell for our sins, we should be consoled that God chastises us in this life, and animate ourselves to look upon such treatment as a pledge that God wishes to spare us in the next.

littlegoldcross.gif (962 bytes)Let the soul thank God when she experiences His loving endearments, but let her not repine when she finds herself left in desolation. It is important to lay great stress on this point, because some souls, beginners in the spiritual life, finding themselves in spiritual aridity, think God has abandoned them, or that the spiritual life is not for them; thus they give up the practice of prayer and lose what they have previously gained. The time of aridity is the best time to practice resignation to God's holy will.

littlegoldcross.gif (962 bytes)When God sends spiritual darkness and desolation, His true friends become known.

littlegoldcross.gif (962 bytes)When God sends us punishments let us say with the high-priest Heli: "It is the Lord, let Him do what is good in His sight."

littlegoldcross.gif (962 bytes)And, above all, let us love that prayer which Jesus Christ has taught us: "Your will be done on earth as it is in heaven."

 

 

Suffering Prayer to Saint Alphonsus

Saint Alphonsus, preacher, confessor, founder, bishop, doctor of prayer and friend of the poor, you are also the special patron of all who suffer from arthritis and the pains of many years.

littlegoldcross.gif (962 bytes)When our fingers twist with pain, keep us focused on the hands of Christ pierced with ugly nails.

littlegoldcross.gif (962 bytes)When our knees knob with endless aches, allow us to see the knees of Jesus smashing to the street under the heavy Cross.

littlegoldcross.gif (962 bytes)When our backs stiffen with soreness, let us remember the back of Christ thrown across the cold, rough wood of the Cross.

littlegoldcross.gif (962 bytes)When our joints, hips, arms, legs and knuckles hurt so much that tears well up in our eyes, help us to recall the tears, the sweat and the blood that flowed from our crucified Jesus, Who suffered so much more for each of us.

Saint Alphonsus, afflicted with curvature of the spine and nailed to a wheelchair cross in your final years, teach us to unite all our pains with the dreadful sufferings of Jesus on the Cross.

We ask you to ease our pains, but more so to enable us to be one with Jesus in His great act of dying and rising.

Amen.