Chapter VIII
Love is not Prone to Anger


The Crucifixion - by GRÜNEWALD, Matthias - from Musée d'Unterlinden, Colmar
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Art for Grünewald consisted in providing a sermon in pictures, of proclaiming the sacred truths as taught by the Church. This central panel of the Isenheim altarpiece shows that he sacrificed all other considerations to this one overriding aim. Like a preacher at Passiontide, Grünewald left nothing undone to bring home to us the horrors of this scene of suffering: Christ's dying body is distorted by the torture of the Cross; the thorns of the scourges stick in the festering wounds which cover the whole figure. The dark red blood forms a glaring contrast to the sickly green of the flesh. By His features and the impressive gesture of His hands, the Man of Sorrows speaks to us of the meaning of His Calvary.

His suffering is reflected in the traditional group of Mary, in the garb of a widow, fainting in the arms of St John the Evangelist, to whose care the Lord has commended her, and in the smaller figure of St Mary Magdalene with her vessel of ointments, wringing her hands in sorrow. On the other side of the Cross, there stands the powerful figure of St John the Baptist with the ancient symbol of the Lamb carrying the Cross and pouring out its blood into the chalice of the Holy Communion. With a stern and commanding gesture he points towards the Savior, and over him are written the words that he speaks (according to the gospel of John 3:30): 'He must increase, but I must decrease'.

There is little doubt that the artist wanted the beholder of the altarpiece to meditate on these words, which he emphasized so strongly by the pointing hand of St John the Baptist. Perhaps he even wanted us to see how Christ must grow and we diminish. For in this picture, in which reality seems to be depicted in all its unmitigated horror, there is one unreal and fantastic trait: the figures differ greatly in size. We need only compare the hands of St Mary Magdalene under the Cross with those of Christ to become fully aware of the astonishing difference in their dimensions. It is clear that in these matters Grünewald rejected the rules of modern art as it had developed since the Renaissance, and that he deliberately returned to the principles of medieval and primitive painters, who varied the size of their figures according to their importance in the picture. Just as he had sacrificed the pleasing kind of beauty for the sake of the spiritual lesson of the altarpiece, he also disregarded the new demand for correct proportions, since this helped him to express the mystic truth of the words of St John.

Some people make perfection consist in an austere life;
others in prayer; others in frequenting the sacraments;
others in almsgiving. But they deceive themselves:
Perfect sanctity consists in loving God with our whole heart.
Jesus deserves our love because of the love He has shown us in His Passion and Death.

 

Note Bene: Bible verses quoted in this Book are from the English Douay-Rheims translation commissioned by the Catholic Church. 

 

Chapter VIII
Love is not Prone to Anger

by Saint Alphonsus Liguori

Those who love Jesus Christ are not prone to anger. What controls their reaction to the contradictions in life is the virtue of meekness, which was treated in Chapter II under the aspect of kindness. However, since meekness is a virtue that demands constant practice, it will be considered here even more thoroughly.

Humility and meekness were the favorite virtues of Jesus Christ, which is why He told His disciples: "Take up My yoke upon you, and learn of Me, because I am meek, and humble of heart: and you shall find rest to your souls" - Matthew 11:29. The entire life of Jesus Christ is an example of meekness. But this is especially true during His Passion; while on the Cross, He begged His Eternal Father: "Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do" - Luke 23:34.

How dear to Jesus Christ are those persons who, in suffering injury and insult, and even persecution, are not irritated by those who oppress them. This is why God is always ready to hear the prayer of the meek: "Blessed are the meek: for they shall possess the land" - Matthew 5:4.

The saints do not resent those who treat them with contempt; in fact, they love them even more. And the Lord, in turn, gives them interior peace. The proud, on the other hand, are always vindictive, because they have a high opinion of their own worth, and think that they deserve honor in proportion to their own conceit.

Saint Paul wrote to the Philippians: "And the peace of God, which surpasseth all understanding, keep your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus" - Philippians 4:7. Those who love Jesus Christ easily find this peace, even in the midst of contempt, because they are completely united to the will of God. Accepting all circumstances with equal peace of mind, they enjoy a treasure more priceless than the whole world.

To remain united with Jesus Christ we must abide in peace even in the midst of the contradictions we encounter in our daily lives. The Lord can not live in a troubled heart. Listen, then, to the beautiful lesson given on this subject by the master of meekness, Saint Francis de Sales: "Never open the door to anger for any reason, because once it gains admittance, it is no longer in our power to close the door". Here are three ways to avoid anger:

Divert your mind to something else immediately.

Imitate the apostles when they experienced the storm at sea and turn to God, Who will restore your peace.

Struggle to regain your composure and then resolve to be kind toward the person who has irritated you.

Anger remains a long time in the hearts of those who have little love for God. But if it happens to enter the heart of one who really loves Jesus Christ, it is quickly extinguished. Those who freely love the Redeemer never surrender to quick temper since they want only what God wants; they have everything they could possibly desire, and so they always remain sensibly calm. The divine will is their tranquilizer in every difficulty that arises, enabling them to practice meekness toward everyone they meet . But we know by experience that we cannot grow in gentleness toward others unless we first increase the tenderness of our love for Jesus Christ.

 

Prayer and Practicality

Now, since we cannot always experience this tenderness, we must prepare ourselves, in our prayer, to bear the crosses that we will encounter. The saints did so, and thus they were prepared to accept patiently injury and contempt. When we are insulted, unless we have disciplined ourselves beforehand, we will find it extremely difficult to avoid yielding to anger. On the spur of the moment, anger will make it seem logical to give a cutting answer to the person who insults us. But, as Saint John Chrysostom reminds us: "One fire does not put out another".

Still, as we all know, there are times when it seems absolutely necessary to answer insolence with severity. Occasions do occur when we may resort to righteous anger. But this we must remember: It may sometimes be expedient - speculatively speaking - to answer someone severely; but in practice it is very difficult to do so without some fault on our part.

We should take great care to practice meekness, especially when we are corrected, either by those who hold authority over us, or by our friends. Saint Francis de Sales writes: "To receive a correction cheerfully proves that we love the virtue in which we have failed. And, consequently, this is an indication of growth in holiness". We should even practice meekness toward ourselves in this case. Anger at ourselves is a deceit of the Devil to make us think that it is somehow virtuous to act in this way after we have committed a fault.

Gentleness is even more important when we must correct others. Corrections made in anger often do more harm than good, especially when the person corrected is also excited. In such a case, the correction should be postponed. If we correct others when we are angry ourselves, our correction will always be mixed with harshness, and the person being corrected will, consequently, ignore our admonition.

We must prove how dearly we love Jesus Christ by meekly and gladly accepting every kind of injury and contempt.

 

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"O my God, make me a saint"
Saint Alphonsus Mary Liguori

 

Prayer

My Redeemer, your example teaches those who love You that contempt from others is something to be desired. I promise you, from now on, to submit to every insult - out of love for You. Give me the strength to keep this promise. Help me to know and carry out what You desire from me.

My God and my all, I desire no other good but You. Give me the grace to wish only to please You. Help me to avoid whatever might offend You and seek whatever gives You pleasure. Save me from everything that might distract me from Your love. I consecrate my free will entirely to Your good will.

I love You, O Incarnate Word; I love You more than myself. Have pity on me and heal the wounds of my poor soul, for I have been unfaithful to Your love. I surrender myself into Your arms, O my Jesus. I want to suffer everything in Your love. I seek only Your love.

Holy Virgin and my Mother Mary, I love you and I rely on you. Intercede for me with your Divine Son.

Amen